Why it's important

Verbal aggression from individuals with dementia can stem from their inability to adequately express their feelings, thoughts, and needs, which often results in frustration, fear, or confusion.

How to do it

If your loved one is verbally aggressive or screaming:

• Speak calmly and softly, using a reassuring voice to help de-escalate the situation and provide a sense of security.
• Talk to your loved one about someone they love or something they enjoy. This can help shift their focus away from the source of their anger.
• Divert their attention to an object or activity in the room that might capture their interest and distract them from their distress.

Benefits

• Speaking calmly and redirecting attention can help lower their stress levels and prevent escalation of their feelings.
• Creating a peaceful environment makes your loved one feel secure and valued.
• Redirecting to topics they love can foster positive interactions and strengthen your bond.

Remember

Verbal aggression is often a way for your loved one to communicate their fears and frustrations with you. Approach each situation with empathy and patience, recognizing that their behavior is a result of their condition and not because of actual anger or disappointment in you.